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There's an old song by Gordon Lightfoot called Sundown, where he says *I can see her lookin fast in her faded jeans she's a hard lovin woman got me feelin mean*. The word *mean* hear does not mean *cruel*, but I think you could see how it is clear that the word *mean* here conjures the right attitude, an attitude of ATTRACTION and not WORSHIP.
Ahh, time for another eye-opener: IF YOU ARE BEING A MAN, AND FEELING GOOD ABOUT YOUR NATURAL ATTRACTION TO HER, INSTEAD OF FEELING ASHAMED OF IT, THEN YOU DON'T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT WHAT TO SAY SO MUCH. Whatever it is, keep it light, and then arrange what you want- a coffee date right then and there? *Hey, let's chat this over a coffee- there's a cafe/coffee house/whatever right there* Maybe you are on the run, so you'll just ask for her email. You are THE MAN, she is looking for you to LEAD, so it's UP TO YOU. Just BE A MAN, and feel comfortable with that, there is NOTHING wrong with you ENJOYING the feeling of being with a hot woman. And being a man, you have the privilege to TAKE ACTION and MAKE THE DECISIONS- it's what she WANTS you to do! And GUESS WHAT ELSE HAPPENS WHEN YOU ARE FEELING SEXUAL? YOU CANNOT FEEL FEAR. |
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Now, you don't have to be a JERK, you just have to know how to be emotionally STRONG. JERKS don't need to be emotionally strong, because they really are constantly focusing on a new woman, and really don't have much emotion invested in any ONE woman. GOOD GUYS must have the strength to not fall under a woman's spell and to be able to IMMEDIATELY walk away from a woman should she disrespect him. And he must CONVEY this through his behavior, not through direct communication and words.
Direct communication is weak, since it involves very little mental effort on the other side. Sometimes just a disinterested LOOK can say more than a thousand words. And because it's harder to be a good guy than to be jerk, many guys get seduced by the *dark side*. The problem with being a jerk though is that it works on breaking down a woman's self-esteem, and women with low self esteem are in my opinion NO FUN AT ALL. |
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WOMEN'S PROGRAM FOR WHO TO BE ATTRACTED TO IS ACTUALLY NOT HELPING WOMEN!
It ends up often making women attracted to guys who are HORRIBLE for her. Guys who treat her badly. So consider women's programs as OUTDATED, yet unchangeable. Which means that as men, we must DEAL with it and dating THE LANGUAGE of that program. Yes, it's nothing more than a PROGRAM, designed to elicit in women the EMOTIONAL RESPONSE CALLED SEXUAL ATTRACTION when prompted by certain CUES. What are these cues? |
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